Pregnancy & Childbirth

Caring for the Mother: Physically and Emotionally

Postpartum care for the mother:
After delivering her baby, a mother will continue to be monitored and receive pain relief, if needed. A mother and baby usually remain at the hospital for a couple of days to recover.

What does recovering from childbirth involve?
As the mother recovers, the following symptoms are not uncommon:

  • bloody vaginal discharge that changes to brown, then whitish over the next couple of weeks after delivery
  • a tender vaginal area
  • painful contractions that continue after delivery - as the uterus returns to its original size 
  • breast engorgement - as milk production begins
  • extreme fatigue and soreness are common in the first few weeks 

It is generally recommended that all new mothers schedule an appointment with their physicians six weeks after delivery to ensure properly healing.

The first few weeks as a mother:
During the first few weeks, a mother needs to take good care of herself to rebuild her strength. Taking the following steps can help:

  1. Take naps when the baby naps, to compensate for lost sleep at night from getting up to feed the baby.

  2. Wear a supportive bra. Warm packs can be used to ease engorgement of the breasts and help stimulate the letdown of milk (a reflex that triggers the release of breast milk). If a mother chooses not to breastfeed, ice packs and binding the breasts will help alleviate engorgement in a couple of days.

  3. If stitches were necessary during a vaginal delivery, taking warm, shallow baths (sitz baths) twice a day may relieve soreness and speed healing.

  4. After a cesarean section, the mother should keep the incision clean and dry.
Did You Know ...

The "baby blues" occur in approximately 75 percent of all new mothers.

Postpartum depression affects at least 10 to 20 percent of new mothers and can last for weeks to months.

As many as 25 percent of women with postpartum depression do not fully recover without the proper treatment.

For some women, feelings of postpartum depression may also be present during pregnancy, after miscarrying the fetus, and/or after terminating the pregnancy.

What are the "baby blues"?
It is not uncommon for women to experience the "baby blues" during the first days weeks after delivery (most commonly seen occurring suddenly on the third or fourth day after deliver). The "baby blues" are characterized by the following symptoms, although each woman may experience symptoms differently:

  • feelings of disappointment
  • crying with no known reason
  • irritability
  • impatience
  • anxiety
  • restlessness

It is common for these "baby blues" feelings to dissipate soon after onset and, in some cases, without treatment.

What is postpartum depression?
Much more serious and lasting than the "baby blues," many women experience what is clinically referred to as postpartum depression. Postpartum depression affects nearly one in ten new mothers, and in varying degrees of intensity. The following are the most common symptoms of postpartum depression. However, each woman experiences these symptoms differently. Symptoms include:

  • sadness

  • hopelessness

  • fatigue or exhaustion

  • poor concentration

  • confusion

  • a fear of harming the newborn or yourself

  • mood swings characterized by exaggerated highs and/or lows

  • diminished libido (sex drive)

  • feelings of guilt

  • low self-esteem

  • uncontrolled crying and with no known cause

  • overconcern/overattentiveness for the newborn and/or a lack of interest for the newborn

  • appetite changes

  • sleep disturbances

  • resentment

  • memory loss

  • feelings of isolation

In contrast to these characteristic feelings of depression, some women experience more anxiety-related feelings -- called postpartum anxiety -- which often involves symptoms similar to panic disorder. The following are the most common symptoms of postpartum anxiety. However, each woman experiences these symptoms differently. Symptoms include:

  • intense anxiety with no known cause

  • intense fear with no known cause

  • increased heart rate or pounding heart

  • increased rate of breathing or shortness of breath

  • dizziness, lightheadedness, and/or "black outs"

  • physical symptoms that mimic a heart attack and/or chest pain

  • sweating

  • trembling or shaking

  • sensation of choking

  • nausea or abdominal pain

  • numbness

  • chills or hot flashes

In contrast to these characteristic feelings of anxiety, some women experience more obsessive-compulsive-type feelings -- called postpartum obsessive-compulsive disorder -- which often involves symptoms similar to obsessive-compulsive disorder -- an anxiety disorder that affects close to 3.3 million Americans in any given year. The following are the most common symptoms of postpartum obsessive-compulsive disorder. However, each woman experiences these symptoms differently. Symptoms include:

  • repeated doubts (for example, about whether you should have kept the baby or not)
  • intrusive and/or repetitive thoughts about violence or hurting someone (particularly the baby)
  • feelings of anxiety
What is postpartum psychosis?

A small percentage of new mothers experience what is clinically referred to as postpartum psychosis -- with such symptoms as hallucinations (a strong perception of an event or object when no such situation is present; may occur in any of the senses), delusions (a perception that is thought to be true by the person experiencing it, although the perception is wrong), mania (extreme elation, impulsivity, irritability, rapid speech, nervousness, distractibility, and/or poor judgement), and depression. This severest form of postpartum depression, postpartum psychosis affects nearly one in 1,000 women and requires immediate medical treatment and intervention.

  • depressive feelings, which may include:

    • persistent sad, anxious, or empty mood

    • loss of interest in activities once previously enjoyed

    • excessive crying

    • increased restlessness and irritability

    • decreased ability to concentrate and make decisions

    • decreased energy

    • thoughts of death or suicide, or suicide attempts

    • increased feelings of guilt, helplessness, and/or hopelessness

    • weight and/or appetite changes due to over- or under-eating

    • changes in sleep patterns

    • social withdrawal

    • physical symptoms unrealized by standard treatment (i.e., chronic pain, headaches)

What causes postpartum depression?
While the exact cause for postpartum depression is unknown, it is likely that a number of different factors, such as the following, are involved:

  • the changing of roles (as a spouse and new parent)
  • hormonal changes during and after delivery
  • stress
  • family history of mental illness, particularly postpartum depression
  • marital strife

How is postpartum depression diagnosed?
In addition to a complete medical history, physical examination and/or psychiatric evaluation, diagnostic procedures for postpartum depression may include a thyroid screening -- to detect any hormonal or metabolic abnormalities or conditions that may serve as an underlying cause.

Treatment for postpartum depression:
It is important to note that most women who experience the "baby blues," postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, and/or postpartum obsessive-compulsive disorder have never experienced these types of symptoms before, especially with such intensity. In any case, it is important for women to seek proper treatment early -- not only to ensure that the newborn remains safe and properly cared for, but also so that the mother can resolve these symptoms and experience all the joys of motherhood.

Specific treatment for postpartum depression will be determined by your physician based on:

  • your age, overall health, and medical history
  • severity and duration of the symptoms
  • whether or not you are breastfeeding
  • your tolerance for specific medications, procedures, or therapies
  • your opinion or preference

Treatment may include:

  • medication (i.e., hormonal treatments and/or antidepressants)
  • psychological treatment (may include the new mother and/or the family or spouse)
  • peer support (i.e, support groups, educational classes)
  • stress management and relaxation training
  • assertiveness training (Some women need to learn how to set limits with family members, in order that they do not become overwhelmed and overworked.)

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